EXCELLENCE DOES NOT GUARANTEE COLLEGE ADMISSIONS

By the College Spy   

 

Class of 2025 students and parents,

As we get ready to go into college admissions season, it is good to be reminded that there is no magic formula to getting into your dream school.  Unfortunately, you can do all the right things and still not be admitted into your dream school.  Please read these thoughts from a college admission specialist about the reality of college admissions.  Remember this, as it will keep you grounded!! 

The Reality

We've all heard the story of the valedictorian with impressive extracurriculars and perfect test scores getting rejected from their dream college. Parents and students are baffled. "How could this happen with such a stellar record?"

The hard truth is this: college admissions isn't a meritocracy. In the whirlwind of SATs, GPAs, and extracurricular activities, students are often led to believe that ticking all the right boxes will usher them through the gates of any college their heart desires. Yet, the stark reality is that the college admissions process is complex and influenced by a myriad of factors—many of which are outside students' control. Selection committees look at a vast pool of candidates and often make decisions based on institutional needs and a balance of various student profiles. It's not a matter of fairness; it's about crafting a diverse freshman class, each admission slot filled with a puzzle piece that creates the overall picture the institution is striving for.

The Bright Side

Your child's worth is not defined by an acceptance letter. The skills, qualities, and experiences that they've acquired in high school will serve them well at any college. Encourage your child to continue to set ambitious goals, nurture their intellect, and contribute to their community. With these qualities, skills and experiences, they'll flourish and find success wherever they land.
 

The College Spy's Recommendations

1. Cast a wide net if your child is applying to selective colleges where qualified applicants are routinely rejected. Make sure the list contains target and likely choices.
2. Thoroughly research all colleges on your list (not just the most selective ones) to show your child that each college is worthy of their attention and consideration.
3. Visit as many colleges on your student's list as possible. Do not only visit the prestigious ones. I guarantee that you will be impressed by colleges that aren't the most selective.